How Do we Know If a Lady is Faking Orgasm

How Do we Know If a Lady is Faking OrgasmπŸ‘™πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ˜œπŸ˜œπŸ˜œπŸ˜œπŸ˜œπŸ˜œπŸ˜œπŸ˜œπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡

She β€œcomes” after you keep asking her to.
Don’t pressure your partner into having an orgasm. Nothing kills a boner (in any gender) like being forced to the finish line. If you’re asking her every two seconds “did you come” and she eventually moans a half-assed β€œyeah baby,” it was likely just to shut you up rather than because she got off.πŸ”₯πŸ‘™πŸ˜œ

There was no foreplay.
Unless you haven’t seen each other in a month and are so wrought with sexual tension that you could make electricity if you put forks in your butts, your vagina-owning sexy partner likely needs foreplay to have an orgasm. So make out! Eat her out!Do that thing that you surreptitiously read about in Cosmo while you were in line at the pharmacy! Think of P in V sex as part of sex, rather than all that is sex.πŸ˜‹πŸ‘™πŸ‘™πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ‘…πŸ‘…

There’s no recovery time.
After I have an orgasm, I usually can’t talk or move for a little bit. My breathing is different. I’m extra nice to you, and everything is extra sensitive (like “don’t touch that” sensitive). All women are different, but this is known as the “resolution phase” of an orgasm. If she says she came but doesn’t look like she’s in an altered reality for a minute or two, she may have faked it.β˜„βš‘οΈβš‘οΈπŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ’₯πŸ’₯πŸŒ€β˜€οΈπŸŒˆπŸŒˆ

There are no contractions.

When I (and the majority of women, some older studies indicate) come, there’s pelvic muscle contractions. If this happens during penetrative sex, you may be able to feel her vaginal walls gripping β€œpulse pulse pulse” like the bassline of a house track. If she screams that she’s coming but her vagina is as quiet as a Presbyterian grandma when someone brings up anal at Thanksgiving, she may have faked it.πŸ’₯πŸ’₯πŸ’“πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ‘…πŸ‘…πŸ’–β€οΈπŸ‘™

Suddenly she wants sex to be totally different.πŸ˜œπŸ‘™πŸ‘™πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’“πŸ’“πŸ’–πŸ‘πŸ’πŸˆπŸ“πŸ“πŸ†πŸ₯‘πŸ†

When I was in high school, I faked it. Then I realized that was bullshit. I wanted real orgasms and I swore off faking forever, but it was too late. My boyfriend thought he knew what got me off (the penis-in-vagina sex from health class) and when I tried to incorporate more clitoral stimulation and anal play, he got confused. What had changed? Welp. If your partner suddenly stops having performative orgasms from penetrative sex and requests more oral, good for her. She’s standing up for her sexual needs. She was likely faking it some of those other times, and now she’s not. (Soothing caveat: There could be a medical reason behind the change. Switching antidepressants, for instance, can affect ability to orgasm.)πŸ‘πŸ’πŸ’πŸ“πŸ“πŸ‡πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›

It’s different than her other orgasms.

Women fake it for a lot of reasons. Usually, in newer relationships, it’s because she wants the sex to be good, but she may not feel close enough to you to ask for what she needs in bed (which is a scary thing to do) so she fakes it with loud moans. I’ve even been guilty of even faking pelvic contractions when I was younger, making it trickier for my boyfriend to discern a difference. Let’s say after sleeping together for a month that it’s her birthday, so you go down on her for 45 minutes. She comes, less theatrically, but with an arched back while repeating β€œholy shit holy shit holy shit holy shit holy shit holy shit holy shit” and then flops over to have a moment between her and her god. Congrats: You just saw a real orgasm. Eat more pussy! @dickhead256