Ways to Take Missionary Sex to the Next Level😍
Missionary position might seem like the most vanilla of them all. I mean, if you’re looking to spice things up, then it’s no match for Reverse Cowgirl or the Pretzel Dip (yeah, it’s a thing).
Even if its old school doesn’t mean you should take missionary off the table. In fact, there are a few good reasons why it should be a regular part of your repertoire. “It’s quite basic…[but you] get to have a full-body experience where you can make out and kiss different body parts while having sex.
But first…am I doing this missionary position thing right?
Remember:
Missionary is everyone’s go-to position for a reason. It’s your pretty straightforward guy-on-top, lots of eye contact move.😍
How to:
Have your partner lie on their back while you lie facedown on top of them. Try shifting the angle of your partner’s legs for different sensations.
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1. Start with some foreplay.
This one might seem obvious, but there’s a tendency to skip it in favor of the main event. But Sendler says foreplay that explores the vagina can help your partner warm up, so try a little penetration with your (or her) fingers
2. Incorporate the breasts and nipples.
The breasts and nipples are two of her biggest erogenous zones. Tease, massage, apply pressure—really anything that makes your partner feel good.
3. Use oral sex as transitional foreplay.
Turning to oral sex as a pre-missionary warmup “always spices up a sex life.I recommend going down on your partner, then quickly jumping into missionary style sex.
4. Adjust the rhythm.😍
Sex doesn’t have to be a race (unless you’re looking for a quickie). So switch your speed between fast and slow and change up the depth from shallow to deep to allow for various types of stimulation. You can also move your hips in a circular motion instead of an up-and-down direction.
5. Include a vibrator in the mix.
Your partner can use a vibrator before you enter her, or, if you both are up for it, you can go for double penetration.
“While having missionary sex, the male partner can insert a small vibrator or vibrating ball into the anus of his female partner. “This way the sensation is greater—it’s essentially diffused pelvic stimulation that helps turn on all erogenous tissues that are within the female pelvis.”
6. Go for an inventive variation.
Heard of the Cross-Booty position? Didn’t think so. Opt for this one when you want the closeness of missionary, but with an added bit of fun. Start by entering your partner from the missionary position, then slide your chest and legs off her body so your pelvis is in the same location, but your limbs form an “X” with hers. Bonus? This unique angle gives you ample opportunity to grab onto her back or butt while he thrusts.